You've just walked out of the salon with gorgeous, voluminous hand-tied weft extensions, and they look absolutely perfect. But here's what most people don't realize: the first 90 days determine whether your extensions will continue looking salon-fresh or start showing premature wear. The difference between extensions that last their full lifespan and those that need early replacement often comes down to the habits you establish right now.
Hand-tied wefts are an investment in your appearance and confidence, and they require a different approach than your natural hair. The good news? With the right roadmap for these critical first three months, you can keep your extensions looking beautiful while protecting that investment. Let's break down exactly what you need to do, week by week.
Your first week sets the foundation for everything that follows. This is when your scalp adapts to the extensions and you learn how they respond to your daily routine.
The way you sleep can cause significant tangling and stress on the weft attachment points. Before bed each night, create a loose braid or low ponytail to keep hair contained. Use a silk or satin pillowcase to reduce friction. This isn't just about comfort—it's about preventing the kind of matting that can develop at the base of hand-tied wefts when loose hair twists and turns throughout the night.
Wait at least 48 hours after installation before your first wash. When you do wash, focus on technique over products. Tilt your head back in the shower rather than flipping forward, which can create tangles at the weft line. Apply shampoo directly to your scalp using fingertips in a gentle, downward motion. Never scrub in circular motions near the wefts.
For conditioner, start mid-shaft and work down to the ends. Keep it away from the attachment area for the first two weeks while everything settles. Rinse thoroughly with lukewarm water—hot water can loosen adhesive bonds and stress the natural hair holding the wefts.
Brush three times daily minimum: morning, midday, and before bed. Start at the ends and work upward in small sections. When you reach the weft area, hold the hair firmly just above it to prevent pulling on your natural hair. Use a loop brush or soft bristle brush specifically designed for extensions. This daily practice prevents the small tangles that compound into major problems by week three.
Once you've adjusted to the physical presence of extensions, this month focuses on integrating proper care into your lifestyle without overthinking every move.
Wash your hair every 2-3 days maximum. Hand-tied wefts don't benefit from daily washing the way natural hair might. In fact, overwashing can cause premature loosening and dryness. On non-wash days, use dry shampoo at the roots only, being careful to brush it through completely so no residue builds up near the wefts.
When you do wash, create a routine: detangle before entering the shower, shampoo twice focusing on the scalp, condition the lengths, rinse in sections to ensure nothing gets trapped, and gently squeeze out excess water rather than wringing.
Heat styling requires extra caution near weft attachment points. Always use a heat protectant spray on damp hair before blow-drying. Keep your dryer on medium heat and dry your natural hair at the roots first, working in sections. When the hair near the wefts is about 80% dry, you can work on the extension hair itself.
For flat irons or curling tools, never clamp down directly on or within an inch of the weft line. The combination of heat and pressure can damage both the weft construction and your natural hair. Stay at 300-350°F maximum for the extension hair.
Switch to sulfate-free shampoos if you haven't already. Sulfates strip the protective coating from extension hair, leading to dryness and tangling. Look for products labeled as extension-safe or designed for color-treated hair, which tend to be gentler.
Avoid oil-based products near the root area and wefts for the first month. While oils are fine on the mid-lengths and ends, they can cause slippage at attachment points when overused. A lightweight leave-in conditioner works better for overall maintenance during this period.
By week five, you'll notice patterns in how your extensions behave. This is the perfect time to make adjustments before minor issues become major problems.
Some shedding is normal, but excessive hair loss or tangling concentrated in specific areas needs attention. Check your brush after each use. If you're seeing more than 10-15 hairs, evaluate your technique. Are you brushing thoroughly before bed? Are you keeping hair secured during workouts?
Tangling often occurs at the nape of the neck where hair rubs against collars and scarves. If you notice persistent tangles in one area, add an extra brushing session focused on that zone. Use a detangling spray formulated for extensions to work through any knots gently.
Around week six, do a thorough assessment. Examine the weft attachment points in good lighting. They should still feel secure with no excessive looseness. The hair quality should look consistent from root to end without significant dryness or texture changes.
This is also when you might notice if your maintenance routine needs adjusting. Is your hair getting too oily too quickly? You might need to clarify your scalp. Does the extension hair feel dry despite conditioning? Add a weekly deep conditioning treatment focused on the mid-lengths and ends.
The final month of your first 90 days prepares you for the maintenance appointment where wefts get moved up as your natural hair grows.
Increase conditioning treatments during weeks 9-12. Use a deep conditioning mask weekly, applying it to damp hair from mid-shaft to ends. Leave it on for 15-20 minutes before rinsing thoroughly. This ensures the extension hair stays in optimal condition for reinstallation.
Be extra gentle with brushing as the wefts have naturally grown away from your scalp. There's more length between your scalp and the attachment point, which means more opportunity for tangling if you're not careful.
Your stylist will remove the existing wefts, assess both your natural hair and the extension hair condition, and reinstall them closer to your scalp. Come to this appointment with clean, dry, thoroughly brushed hair. This makes the process faster and allows your stylist to better evaluate the hair quality.
Communicate any issues you experienced during these 90 days. If certain areas tangled more, if you had concerns about shedding, or if the weight felt uncomfortable in any spots, this is the time to address it. Your stylist can adjust the placement or number of wefts accordingly.
The habits you've built over these first 90 days become your foundation for maintaining beautiful extensions long-term. Consistent brushing prevents tangling. Proper washing technique preserves both your natural hair and the extensions. Heat protection prevents damage that accumulates over time.
Remember that hand-tied wefts are reusable when properly cared for, meaning the effort you put in now pays dividends through multiple installations. The difference between extensions that last six months versus twelve months almost always comes down to daily maintenance habits established in these critical first three months.
Keep a simple checklist on your phone for the first month until these practices become automatic: brush three times daily, sleep with hair secured, wash every 2-3 days with proper technique, use heat protection, and examine your wefts weekly. Once these become second nature, maintaining your extensions requires minimal extra time while delivering consistently beautiful results.
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Bombshell Extension Co. is a provider of luxury, 100% Remy human hair extensions available to both licensed hairstylists and consumers worldwide.
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